Maybe sebab personally I've never had that much of an esteem to tell any guy I fancy on how I feel.
Don't get me wrong though... I don't have anything against ladies who do the 1st move [and I know of some guys who are so shy, shy enough that they wish the world revolves around such concept instead], in fact aku respect gila-gila to these ladies yang sangat berani 'coz I know I will never be able to muster courage like they do. Tapi, still, bagi aku, sebagai perempuan, haruslah kena berpada-pada la kan.
'Coz men ni, I find la kan, still need that 'chasing' factor. I think it's what God made them for in the first place -- to hunt, and to 'layan' and belai their ego. You nak urat the guy, urat la. Tapi dalam proses tu, kena jual mahal sikit la kan... kasi 'test' sikit sama ego dia. Kalau dia tak kejar you balik... baik tak payah noks. Angkat kaki aje, pi urat orang lain pulak. Gitu.
Anyhoos, I've a point to convey actually.
When I was told by Umi that a 24-year old girl seems to have an eye on my baby bro the past week or two (don't know if my bro sedar ke tak that the girl sudah jatocinnnnta ke dia) tapi dok urat my mom on the phone instead, like, 2,3 kali sehari padahal dah berbelas-belas tahun dah tak jumpa my mom, well, I've a few things to say to the girl:
1. Weh, hallo, aku pun tak tipun mak aku sampai 2,3 kali sehari, ok;
2. Go talk 2,3 kali sehari to you own mother that you still live with, boleh tak (yes I'm that possessive of my mother ok. I mean, who doesn't? And aku also kenal her very lovely mother);
3. My mom is also very conservative, so if you think by talking to my mom 2,3 kali sari can curi hati dia en-route to curi hati my baby bro, then you're such on the wrong channel and wrong track, young lady;
4. Go deal with my baby brother head-on instead, boleh tak. Akak ni pun dah nak bertunang baru mula berborak dengan my Mak Mertua, tau. Atas arahan my own mom, tu. That's how our family works. Conservative? Very. Period.
I hope she reads my bro's blog, and eventually mine.
'Coz seriously? In all honesty? I really do not know how to react lah to such honesty. Hey mesti la aku retard ada orang nak urat adik aku. Tapi, man-man [coolly] la kan... tak yah la sampai nak urat mak aku sampai memalam masa mak aku nak tido pun hangpa tipun or sms, or masa time mak aku nak mandi, or nak memasak. Amboih.
'Coz you know, we're just conservative like that. Tak perlu sampai gitu mkay.
Esok-esok bila dah dapat adik aku pun, tak tentu lagi kau nak tipun mak aku sampai 2,3 kali sari. Habis madu, sepah dibuang gitu. Itu lagi buat akak marrrrrah kalau hangpa nak taw.